It’s not *just* about the food

I went for lunch the other day with my aunt and niece - three generations around the table, catching up, laughing, sharing plates. My aunt was raving about the place I’d chosen, and my niece looked up and said, “I think she likes it.”

I laughed. “Good, I’m glad! I know her restaurant requirements when she comes to town.”

“What do you mean?” she asked.

“Well,” I continued, “when I choose restaurants, whether I’m out with someone or giving a recommendation, of course it’s about the place. But it’s more about the person.”

When I pick a restaurant for someone, it’s never just about the food. It’s about them. Who they are. What kind of energy they bring. The atmosphere they’ll enjoy. How they like to eat. What flavours they love. Whether they’ll notice the artwork, or appreciate the service and etiquette - especially in my aunt’s case. Bonus points for tablecloths.

And when someone tells me they loved it, well, that’s the best feeling.

Yes, of course I’ve got a list. An extensive list. A slightly obsessive list of all the places I love and the places I want to try. But the magic happens when that list meets the people I’m sharing a table with (or sending off to one). Knowing who they are helps me know where to take them.

So, here on Grapes & Plates, I’ll be sharing some of my favourite spots - and more importantly, who I brought there and why. Maybe you'll find a new spot to add to your list - or just the right one to take your aunt, your friend, your date, or whoever makes the meal.

Because the best meals don’t just fill your stomach - they’re about the people, the stories and the memories. They fill the room, the conversation, and leave you full in all the right ways.